General Discussion 5

Stormy · May 31, 2013 6:15 PM

To everyone who has never been on a date: there's nothing wrong with you. I think a lot of people overvalue sexual and relationship experience and use them as some kind of indicator of a person's worth. I try to just ignore those people because they are too single-minded to realize that there's a lot more to life than just that.

Latias fan · May 31, 2013 7:10 PM

Stormy · May 31, 2013 7:17 PM

Well... I'm 22. When I was your age I had never been on a date either. tongue

Edit: I guess what I'm trying to say is, yeah, dating is great and all, but it doesn't make you a loser if haven't been on a date before.

RangerOfIthilien · May 31, 2013 7:42 PM

@Latias-fan's image: I was like that when talking to people outside my small group of friends back when I was younger too, but as I got older it got a lot easier. The first time I ever worked up the courage to talk to Stormy it was a lot like that actually... and again when I asked her out. but it was working up the courage that helped me get past it, as well as getting out of high school and being forced to interact with new people. As far as being single, the right person will come when they come, there's no reason to put yourself down if you haven't found someone yet, just keep searching and stay positive.

Clock-la · May 31, 2013 7:44 PM

I know, i mean heck I got used to been alone, but hey I guess i'll be happy enough lonely again soon (the guys going to Uni soonish -crying-) tongue

Hwd45 · May 31, 2013 7:59 PM

It's never bothered me that I've never been in a relationship with someone, and it still doesn't bother me tongue but the thing that does bother me is how often I'll obsess over a straight person like I have for the past year or so

Stormy · May 31, 2013 8:07 PM

I had a crush on a guy in early high school who I found out later was gay. I was pretty much over him by the time I found out, though, and I never really thought we would be together or anything because he was one of those popular drama people who had millions of friends.

I imagine the reverse happens a lot more often, though.

MaxwellTheScribblenaut · May 31, 2013 8:25 PM

The way I met Cara was through a friend, and for a while I decided I liked her. When she found out the first time, I chickened out. The next time, I had a friend tell her I liked her, and she liked me back. We talked from there, and eventually we fell in love. I thought it would be hard to be in a relationship, but you get used to it after a while.

Clock-la · May 31, 2013 8:36 PM

RangerOfIthilien · May 31, 2013 8:40 PM

Contrary to what I said earlier, it varies. With me and Stormy I felt it right away, while it took her a few months to feel it. And it all still worked out for us.

Stormy · May 31, 2013 8:45 PM

Yeah, love at first sight is not really a thing that actually happens outside of fiction. At least not in my experience.

I'm a little odd in that I've never been attracted to anyone by their looks, though, so it always takes me kind of a while to start having feelings for someone.

Hwd45 · May 31, 2013 9:33 PM

The person I 'like', I've known for nearly 6 years. About a year ago I became really good friends with him and... yeah, you get the idea tongue

36IStillLikeSpyro36 · May 31, 2013 11:53 PM

i "like" someone right now. that is such a rare occurrence. i don't develop feelings often - well, i do, and then i get over them very quickly. it's different with this person, though. we have a lot in common, and without sounding corny, we just understand each other in a way that a lot of other people don't. and it wouldn't surprise me at all if this person felt the same way. we both really enjoy talking to each other.

the problem is, we only know each other online. an online relationship wouldn't work out, for various reasons.

the good news is, first of all, we don't live TOO far from each other. the other good news is, i'm sick and tired right now (because of the heat and broken air conditioning in the family transportation mechanism, no doubt), so i can't even bring myself to be concerned right now. somehow, though, not tired enough to sleep. so i'm just sitting here.

Latias fan · Jun 01, 2013 12:40 AM

Mr. John · Jun 01, 2013 3:19 AM

It's true you can't really call it love at first sight that's only in stories. Also it does indeed take time for feelings to develop.

Clock-la · Jun 01, 2013 8:38 AM

Mr. John · Jun 01, 2013 7:18 PM

Tell us how the date goes Clock wish you all the best. If it already happened hope it was good!

Anyway just saw the trailer for Sonic Lost World looks great will try and pick it up the Wii U Version. Probably will make me love the Wii U and Gamepad even more!

Heard they might have some discussion type thing about Pokemon X and Y at E3 cool!

Luigi's Mansion Dark Moon has been awesome so far!

Clock-la · Jun 02, 2013 7:28 PM

Well. twas a very nice time (Sorry for late response been busy)

Well things didn't go to plan, we ended up getting a panini each and eating at his (The cafe was packed tongue )

But still had a good time, and it seems I'm going with him on a walk after my exams. tongue

Mr. John · Jun 02, 2013 9:08 PM

That's great hope everything continues going good. Sucks that you weren't able to eat at the restaurant hopefully next time.

Clock-la · Jun 02, 2013 9:12 PM

History Exam tomorrow...I am not ready at all...meh

MaxwellTheScribblenaut · Jun 02, 2013 10:49 PM

Just finished a major project for english class. I feel like a giant weight has been taken off of my shoulders.

Clock-la · Jun 03, 2013 7:06 AM

:-P i just suck at revision, i just cannot remember stuff unless I'm taught it

Hwd45 · Jun 03, 2013 6:26 PM

Chemistry exam tomorrow, Physics exam the day after hmm wish me luck

Latias fan · Jun 03, 2013 6:54 PM

Mateos · Jun 03, 2013 7:17 PM

Here exams are for the next week. Networks, databases, programming, language theory, mathematics, some fun time. Then holidays @@

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